Community Codes that Encourage Belonging
Rules that only punish rarely build warmth. Replace vague bans with collaborative norms emphasizing curiosity, citation, and care. Invite members to co-write examples of good replies, celebrate first posts, and recognize repair after conflict. In one pediatric forum, a monthly “gratitude thread” measurably increased retention and reduced flagged posts, as participants learned to ask challenging questions with gentleness and shared responsibility.